I was surprised when I saw a searched keyword used by a visitor from Google and found his way to my blog. He searched “How to Get a Girlfriend”. Now, whoever you are, perhaps, google led you to my site because we have something in common. We desperately need tips to get a girlfriend.
So I’ve read a few sites and some magazines regarding the subject matter and I have come up with 5 major tips on how to get a girlfriend. Do you have your pen and paper ready?
Okay, first off, start with a positive mindset. You may not be the hottest guy in town but one thing’s for sure, some girl out there may be just right for you and simply waiting for your attention. Be confident. To look confident, have a good posture. Avoid self-pity.
2. Be friendly. Try to reach out to more people. Try to be funny. But if you’re not naturally funny, don’t try too hard around her. Situational humor through good timing is more interesting than a practiced punched-line jokes.
3. Connect with her. Find out what you have in common, and reward her with a smile and a story of your own if she tells you something unique about herself to which you can relate. Don’t pretend to be someone you aren’t. You may think you will win her over with like-mindedness, but in the end she will find you out. Find a common interest, something you both like instead.
4. Show your interest. The best way to get out of the “friend trap” is to avoid it from the start. After finding common interests, make your intentions clear. Ask for her number. Give her your phone, tell her “Put your number in my phone and I’ll call your phone so you’ll have mine.” Tell her you’d like to take her out for coffee or dinner, or whatever is appropriate for your age and interests. Try giving gifts if you can afford it. Girls are very fond cute cartoon characters and jewelries so if you can afford it perhaps, try spending a few bucks to buy let’s say hello kitty necklaces.
5. The last and most overlooked part in how to get a girlfriend is that you must look for someone who is compatible with you. If you’re a geek that enjoys playing video games, then go for a cute geeky girl that enjoys playing video games as well. If you’re into going outdoors, then find a girl that enjoys the same things as you. Getting a girlfriend can be a very rewarding experience if you choose right and will enhance your quality of life to levels you never thought possible, who knows, she might end up being your fiance one day!
Sources: WikiHow.com and some magazines